If you notice feelings and he listens to logic, misunderstanding each other’s needs and perspectives is likely.
Knowing what triggers anger will help you and your partner find better ways of coping with it. Even though you may disagree, try to understand that position from your partner’s perspective.
The result is a person who is “mindblind,” which means blindness to another person’s needs, feelings and desires.
This adversely affects the important quality of empathy, which is vital to a successful and fulfilling relationship.
He may have a good job, often as an engineer or in an IT-related field, such as computer programming.
Although the deficits of a man with AS become painfully clear in time, they often present as normal in the beginning of a relationship.
Once resentment and anger builds up, it’s very hard to get past them.Keep in mind too that aspies have strengths as well as weaknesses, just like everyone else on the planet.So even though there are challenges and difficulties there are also strengths that need to be remembered and encouraged.They put children in boxes, reducing them to a meaningless check-list of symptoms and antisocial behavior.And it’s only by educating people and confronting the myths and misconceptions head-on that people will learn to stop putting special children in these boxes.